How to make a girl orgasm

Many guys don’t realize that in order to keep a woman you absolutely MUST learn how to make her orgasm. If you can’t bring your woman to climax, she’ll look for that sexual fulfillment in someone else. It’s a sad reality many guys refuse to admit to themselves, and when the girl finally does leave, they often chalk it up to some other reason. What they neglect to realize is that women love sex just as much as guys do. What if every time you had sex you were left unfulfilled? Have you ever had that experience? Just imagine not being able to cum every single time!? No doubt you can see how that would kill your relationship. Fortunately, learning how to make a girl orgasm is easy- Easy that is, if you can control yourself and implement the steps we’re about to teach you.

How to make a girl orgasm step 1-

The first and probably most important thing to remember is foreplay foreplay foreplay. Most guys ruin their chances to bring their woman to orgasm because they are just too darn impatient. If they could hold themselves back, and give their woman an hour of foreplay (at least), their chances of taking her to orgasm would go up exponentially.

So implement plenty of foreplay! Kiss her body from head to toe, whisper in her ear, and make her feel beautiful and vulnerable. Make sure she’s dripping wet before you even thinking about touching her down there. Warm her up! And make her beg for it!

How to make a girl orgasm step 2-

Anticipation is the name of success. When she’s good and warmed up you need to make her wait even longer. Run your tongue along her inner thigh, and breathe out softly onto her vagina. Move up and down her body with your tongue, and caress her breasts as you tease her with your eyes. Do this until she can’t take another minute of it.

How to make a girl orgasm step 3-

The first lick. After you’ve built up lots of anticipation, give her a slow lick all the way up her vagina, from bottom to top. After you’ve licked her you’ll see the feeling of it resonate all through her body. Wait while it shutters through her, and look in her eyes while she arches her back in ecstasy. Say to her: “Did you like that?” When she says: “Yes!” say: “Do you want it again?” When she says she does, do it again. Do this 3-5 times until you can see she NEEDS continuous stimulation.

How to make a girl orgasm step 4-

After you’ve done the “first lick” technique several times, begin licking her clitoris softly and slowly. I’ve found “making out” with the clitoris to be particularly effective. Run your tongue up the clitoris then close over it softly with your lips. Then run your bottom lip up over it, and then come back down followed with the downward motion of your tongue. Use her body’s reaction as the gauge to the pressure and speed you should be using. If she presses into you, don’t pull back. If she pulls away, stay where you are. Let her hips decide the pressure.

How to make a girl orgasm step 5-

When she’s really getting into it; stop. Look her in the eyes and tell her that you love her vagina. Tell her how beautiful she is, and all you want to do is lick her all night. When you can tell she can’t wait another second, continue licking. Do this about 2-3 times.

How to make a girl orgasm step 6-

Slowly increase your speed and pressure. You’ll know she’s about to orgasm when you can feel the clitoris get hard. Keep up the pace. It also helps to moan a little bit like you’re really enjoying it. This creates a subtle vibration, and it makes her think you LOVE to go down on her. Needless to say, she must believe you love be down there. This is the only way to make her comfortable enough to let go and have an orgasm. You need to act like going down on her is your favorite thing in the world.

How to make a girl orgasm step 7-

Right before she has an orgasm her clitoris will retract into the hood. Stay with it. She will begin to move around and thrash her body, so it’s really important to get a firm grip on her and keep your tongue in place. Don’t lose contact; it will take away from the full sensation of her orgasm.

As I mentioned before, it’s extremely important that you communicate to her that you love to go down on her. You need to make her feel like she’s has the most beautiful vagina in the world, and you need to communicate that you love to lick it. If she feels uncomfortable at all, she won’t be able to orgasm. On the same note, make sure you NEVER tell her that you want to give her an orgasm. In fact, telling her the opposite is much more effective. You can say something like: “Don’t cum ok; I want to be down her as long as possible.” It’s reverse psychology and it works like a charm.

When learning how to make a girl orgasm toys are also a HUGE help. If you can speak to your woman and find out what type of sex toy she likes the best, you can buy one for her and use it during a night of lovemaking. Communicate to her that toys turn you on, and you love the way she looks when she’s using them. If you just can’t hit orgasm with your tongue alone, toys will almost always be enough assistance to get the job done.

When you finally make a girl orgasm you’ll see an immediate change in her attachment to you. If you have the “big O” in your belt, you don’t have to worry about her seeking that sexual satisfaction in someone else. Learning how to make a girl orgasm is essential to keeping a girlfriend. So do whatever you have to do to make it happen. For some great toys feel free to check out some of my review videos. There’s definitely a toy out there that can help you become the sexual stud she deserves.
By – Heather Starr ( luvtoy.net owner)

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